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Calvary Protestant Reformed Church
Tuesday November 24th, 2020
2:00pm - 7:00pm

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John Erwin Harmelink

John E. Harmelink, 90, of Sioux City, Iowa, formerly of Rock Valley, Iowa, passed into the arms of Jesus on November 21, 2020, at Countryside Health Care Center, Sioux City, Iowa.  A private funeral service will be held at Faith Reformed Church in Rock Valley, Iowa at 11am on Wednesday, November 25, followed by interment at Valley View Cemetery in Rock Valley.  A public visitation with no family present will be held from 2 to 7pm on Tuesday, November 24, at Porter Funeral Home in Rock Valley.  Masks are required at the visitation.  The funeral service will be livestreamed on www.faithrv.com.  Memorials may be directed to Hope Haven International Ministries.


   John Erwin Harmelink was born on August 29, 1930, in Rock Valley’s first hospital.  His parents were Gerrit and Minnie (Van Eldik) Harmelink.  The family lived on the edge of Rock Valley, and John attended Rock Valley Public School, graduating in 1948.  He then spent two years at Iowa State University, majoring in Agricultural Education.  On April 2, 1951, John joined the US Navy for a four-year enlistment, serving largely at Naval Submarine Base New London in Connecticut.  After release from active duty, he spent one semester at Central College in Pella, Iowa.


   John was united in marriage with his high school sweetheart, Margie Kramer, on March 15, 1955, at First Reformed Church in Rock Valley.  John and Marge purchased a farm west of Rock Valley a year later, and lived there until 2019.  They raised livestock and crops.  When John was no longer actively farming, he focused on a large garden with Neal Feenstra, raising tomatoes and giant pumpkins, and tending chickens.  Over the years many, many friends and family members spent time visiting at the farm.  He was a gifted conversationalist, and never knew a stranger, at least not for long.


   They owned and operated Rock Valley Sales Co as a livestock auction barn, and later built a successful hay and straw auction.  John was an accomplished auctioneer, and also sold real estate.  He was the keynote speaker at the National Hay Convention in Milwaukee, WI, and notably got the audience’s attention by opening his remarks with a live auction call.


   John was introduced to harness racing by a friend of the family, Pete Vander Velde, in the early 60’s.  He actively trained and drove racehorses for the next almost 30 years, mainly on the fair circuit in Iowa and Minnesota.  He also announced many races, and was a credentialed Presiding Judge for Iowa fair racing.  He was a long time member of the United State Trotting Association.  He had fun with the names of his racehorses, his favorites being horses named after friends or family members.  Notable were Gary the Great, Martin Buckley, Minda J, Mama Marge, Al Pruis, Charla Beth and Jeremiah Judge.  Among his favorite racing memories were taking the family to Winnipeg, Manitoba, to watch Gary the Great win going four wide at Assiniboia Downs;  watching Al Pruis chart his first win at Humbolt, Iowa;  and having all the local horsemen come to the farm on Saturdays in the spring and early summer to train horses together.


   John was a member of Faith Reformed Church in Rock Valley.  He was a Sunday School teacher, and he and Marge represented their church at a missions conference at Hofstra University in New York.  They also traveled to Vietnam with Hope Haven International Ministries to distribute wheelchairs.


   John loved Rock Valley, and served as the general chairman for two of Rock Valley’s events--the Diamond Jubilee in 1955 and the Centennial celebration in 1979.  He was also a member of the local American Legion.  He was a member of the basketball team when in high school, and always rooted for the local school sports teams, attending as many games as possible.  When mobility challenges made attending live games difficult, he and Marge would listen with rapt attention to the broadcast of the games on KVDB radio.


   He frequented the Rock Valley Public Library, and was a voracious reader.  He and Marge would compete to see who could read the most books in a year.  His favorites were nonfiction, particularly World War II topics.


   Surviving are Marge, his wife of 65 years; daughters Minda Thompson (Merlin Thompson) and Marcia Harmelink (Michael Piontkowski); son Gary Harmelink (Laura Harmelink); grandchildren Beti Littlegeorge, Beth Richter (Nick), Jeremiah Thompson (Robin),  Jordan Harmelink and Bennett Harmelink;  great-grandchildren Skylar Richter, NyKeylauna Richter, Isaac Richter, Tristan Thompson, Adriana Littlegeorge, Alexis Littlegeorge, Alaina Littlegeorge, Josiah Thompson, and Delilah Thompson;  sisters Joan Goetsch and Ruth Harmelink, brothers-in-law Dennis Kaldenberg, Gerald Van Der Vliet, and Jerry Johnson;  and sisters-in-law Henrietta Paulson and Ruby Kramer.


   He was preceded in death by his parents;  stepmother Rena Harmelink;  sister Caroline King;  brothers- and sisters-in-law Ron King, Gerald Goetsch, Leo and Hattie Monster, Hank and Julie Kramer, Jay and Annie Kramer, Bert and Jennie Kramer, Phil Kramer, Martin and Millie Kramer, Jennie Johnson, Bill and Liz Van Duyn, Richard and Alice Park, Mary Van Der Vliet, and Wally Paulson.

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John you will be missed. You were such an inspiration to our girls. You would always talk to them and give them ideas on books. Destiny always love talking to you. She will greatly miss those conversations.

Terry &Tina Cohoon and family Nov 24 2020 12:00 AM

So sorry to hear of John's passing. It was always fun to have him be the host for the many family reunions of the
Harmelinks. Those are great memories. He will be missed. My sympathy to all of the family.
Julie Hummel

Julie Hummel Nov 24 2020 12:00 AM

Hi Marge..you have our sympathy in the loss of john. We have many memories of you folks playing cards etc.especially on those New Year Eve parties. May our God console you and your family.
Herlon and Joan Vander Schaaf

Herlon and Joan Vander Schaaf Nov 24 2020 12:00 AM

So sorry for your loss We have many fond memories of John at the harness races. Thoughts and prayers for you all

Tim and LaVonna Lems Nov 24 2020 12:00 AM

Deepest sympathy. May you hold onto wonderful memories and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Martha Frohwein Nov 23 2020 12:00 AM

Our sympathy and thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time mark and Karla zomer

Mark & Karla Zomer Nov 22 2020 12:00 AM

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