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Merle L. Tilstra

   Inwood, IA: Merle L. Tilstra, 74, of Inwood, Iowa, died at Ava’s House in Sioux Falls, South Dakota on Monday, October 14, 2019, after a nearly two year battle with cancer. Funeral services will be held Friday, October 18, at 10:30 AM at Inwood First Reformed Church with Pastor Rob Horstman officiating. Burial will follow at Richland Cemetery of Inwood. Visitation, with the family present, will be held Thursday, October 17, from 5:30-7:30 PM at the church. Porter Funeral Home of Inwood is assisting the family with arrangements. 


   Merle Leroy Tilstra, son of Walter and Alice (Ter Wee) Tilstra, was born May 23, 1945 in Le Mars, Iowa. Merle grew up in the Inwood, Iowa area and graduated from West Lyon High School. Merle was united in marriage with Donna Visser on June 10, 1966 in Inwood. The couple made their home in Sioux Center, Iowa for a couple years and Merle worked as a plumber. Merle served in the Air National Guard and was later called to serve in the United States Air Force where he was stationed at the Mountain Home Air Force Base in Idaho. Following his service, Merle and Donna moved to the Inwood area. Merle worked at Kooima Manufacturing (Total Component Solutions) in Rock Valley, Iowa for a couple years before spending the next 30 plus years farming the homeplace near Inwood. After retiring, Merle and Donna moved to an acreage east of Inwood where they built their current home. During his retired years, Merle worked at Grand Laboratories in Larchwood, Iowa and A&I Products in Rock Valley.


   Merle was quite the jokester. He always had a joke to share and enjoyed teasing people of all ages. He enjoyed time spent with family, and his morning coffee and donuts with the “guys” in Inwood. Merle also enjoyed going fishing, traveling with family and friends, and visiting distant relatives. Merle was an active member of Inwood First Reformed Church where he served through the years as a Sunday School Teacher, Deacon, and Elder.


   Survivors include his wife of 53 years, Donna; 3 children, Lisa (Paul) DeJong of Sioux Falls, South Dakota, Jami (Paul) Jacobson of Inwood, and Jaris (Katelyn) Tilstra of Brandon, South Dakota; 6 grandchildren, Tyler, Alex, Maddie, Hunter, Easton, and Coen; 2 brothers, Garrit (Henrietta) Tilstra of Canton, South Dakota and Kenny (Mary) Tilstra of Sheridan, Montana; sister, Marcene (Lloyd) Kempema of Greely, Colorado; brother-in-law, Clarence Pennings of Orange City, Iowa; 3 sisters-in-law, Carolyn Tilstra of Surprise, Arizona, Nellie Tilstra of Sioux Center, and Marilyn Tilstra of Denver, Colorado; and numerous nieces and nephews.


   Preceding Merle in death were his parents, Walter and Alice; son, Lance Tilstra; sister, Henrietta Pennings; and five brothers, John, Rodney, Elmer, Marinus, and Marvin Tilstra.

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Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family...May God's comfort and peace flood your souls and sweet memories remain.

Gloria Vande Kamp Oct 21 2019 12:00 AM

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We are so sorry for your lost. I will especially miss his jokes! We love you. Love, Amanda and Michael Visser

Expression of Sympathy Oct 19 2019 12:00 AM

My condolences to your family. Merle was Sunday school teacher in high school. Always, always so kind to me. He was a good man.

Matt Zylstra Oct 19 2019 12:00 AM

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Sending you love and comfort. All Our Love, Colleen, Emily, Hannah, Kelly

Expression of Sympathy Oct 17 2019 12:00 AM

Our sympathy to your family. We have great memories of Merle in high school. Always had a joke or at least a smile. A great guy to have as a friend growing up. Jim and Joanne

Jo Smith Oct 17 2019 12:00 AM

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Expression of Sympathy Oct 17 2019 12:00 AM

Thinking of you and your family and the loss of dad, grandpa, husband, friend and others. I think about how he and Lance must have had a great reunion. Blessings and prayer from. Idaho. Peggy and Paul Watland.

Peggy Watland Oct 17 2019 12:00 AM

A Thoughtful Memories was sent on October 16, 2019

Sending our love and prayers! Carol and Earl Kim and Michelle

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Donna and families, I'm so sorry for your loss. His fight for life is over, now he's resting in the arms of Jesus. I wish I could be there to give you all a hug. Lots of love Aunt Doris

Expression of Sympathy Oct 16 2019 12:00 AM

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